There’s been some drama with Ben Affleck and his ex-wives, Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Garner. At least, that’s what multiple reports are telling us. (The three super stars are far too busy to update us normies on their personal lives right now, let’s be real.) So it’s no surprise that conflicting reports are emerging. The latest in the Ben and Jen and Jen saga comes from a source, who claimed to People that J.Lo “isn’t bothered” by it “at all.”

You’ll recall what started it all: the pics of Ben and Jennifer laughing and hugging at their son’s paintball birthday party earlier this month. TBH, photos like these are not uncommon. Ben and Jennifer may have divorced in 2018, but they are frequently photographed together at family events or gatherings—they do share three children, after all. This time, however, they were accompanied by reporting suggesting that Ben was interested in getting back together. Or maybe he’s not? (Regardless, Jennifer is reportedly not interested.)

Well, now a new source wants us to know that it’s quite the opposite. “I think the two Jens are great admirers of the other, and I think they’re all co-parenting,” a source told People, adding that J.Lo “doesn’t feel betrayed.” Indeed, the two have always been respectful of each other, and it seems that this might just be another case of celebrity gossip running amok. “There is no animosity. They are friendly,” the source insisted. “People are reading into it in a way to create drama where there is none.”